What happened between my teenage years and now? At 16, I had my own phone line with my very own number put in my room. At 19, I was dating someone who lived a few hours away, and we’d wait until 11 p.m. – when rates went down – to talk on the phone. In my early 20s, I lived a few states away doing an internship at a newspaper and my phone bill for those summer months? Astronomical!
Now? Hell no, I won’t talk!
The anti-social stance came somewhere after having my first child. It’s extremely difficult to be on the phone when you have little ones crying in the background. It doesn’t matter how independent they seem, the minute you get on the phone, some sort of crisis will take place. Absolute chaos erupts. It would be at that moment when she’d decide to do something like climb the piano or dive off the back of the sofa.
And then came not just writing but publication. Suddenly with two children, my time alone, focused, creative & alert, became even more precious. It’s a diamond, oil, champagne and caviar all rolled up into scarce precious hours.
Sigh. The phone rings, breaking any train of thought, eating up time and sometimes it’s absolutely impossible to get back.
Now, that doesn’t mean that I don’t want to talk to my husband or my dad, or a single friend off work from their one job, or a student who didn’t read the question asked me and is freaking out about my answer, or work who could wait until the next day in the office to ask me whatever not-important question just surfaced.
Most of the time, that annoying ringing signifies a recorded politician who wants me to vote for something, or a home improvement company we requested to take us off the list 500 hundred-billion times! *Grrr*
People say that we’ve lost that personal connection with email and social media. But I’d much rather send a two-sentence message than spend 20 minutes on the phone rehashing the same thing.
I’ve morphed into the Grinch-Oscar all-tumbled into one: Don’t Call Me – Maybe. Unless, it’s really, really good and you know I made my upcoming book deadline!
Now back to working on book 4 of The Vampire, The Witch & The Werewolf series, titled, The Wolfe Pack.
How about you? Are you a social, talking, butterfly?